Welcome to Ask Robyn

Thank you for getting in touch. It makes sense that you are weighing this up, especially while managing work commitments and caring for your daughter’s safety. Asking this question shows how much you are looking out for her.

Thinking about the situation

While your daughter is used to being home alone, having an unfamiliar adult come into the house is a different situation. It may help to consider how well you know the plumber. Is he someone you trust and have used before, or is he a stranger to both of you? This can influence how safe and at ease the situation might be.

Exploring other options

Given this, it is worth looking at alternatives where your daughter would not be alone in the house with the tradesman. For example, could the appointment be arranged for a time when you are home, or when another trusted adult, family member, or neighbour could be present? Even small adjustments like this can make a big difference to everyone’s safety and peace of mind.

Supporting your decision

Taking time to think through these questions can help you make a decision that feels right for both you and your daughter. You are balancing a lot, and it is clear you want to make a safe and thoughtful choice.

We are here to help

If you would like to talk some more about this, our Support Line is open Monday to Friday from 9:00am to 1:00pm on 01 522 4300. Or you can email [email protected].

Thanks for reaching out. We wish you the best, take care

Robyn