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Where can we turn when our daughter discloses a sexual experience involving a family member?

My daughter recently told me that something sexual happened with an older cousin when they were both younger...
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My older daughter spends a lot of time looking after and supporting her younger brother emotionally. I'm concerned she's taking on too much responsibility...
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