Hi there, welcome to Ask Robyn!

Thank you for sharing how you’re feeling — it takes courage to open up, especially about something so close to your heart. Parenting can be filled with second-guessing, and it’s natural to wonder if we’ve made the right choices. Many parents worry if they’ve sent their child to school too early, so please know you’re not alone in this.

Sending a child off to school is a big step, and each child handles it in their own way. Some jump right in, while others need a little more time to adjust. No matter how it’s going for your son, remember that kids are incredibly adaptable. With your support, he’ll find his way and grow from this experience, even if it feels tricky right now.

Feeling guilty shows just how much you care about him. But it’s also okay to give yourself some grace. School is just one part of his journey, and he’s got a whole network of people cheering him on, especially you. Even if this step feels early, he’ll pick up so much along the way, and your love and encouragement make all the difference.

If he’s finding it hard, chatting with his teachers can help — they often have tips and ideas to make the transition easier. If your son is reluctant to go to school, you may find this document helpful Supporting your Child when they are Reluctant to Attend School.

And if you’re ever unsure or just want to talk more about this, we’re here for you. Our Support Line is open Monday–Friday from 9:00 am to 1:00 pm at 01 5224300. You can also email us at [email protected].

Robyn