Your Question
How do I help my daughter understand modesty when sitting wearing a dress. Last night me and my family were sitting and I noticed my daughter would have her legs open enough to see her underwear my daughter is 11 I know shes not doing it on purpose but I know how cruel the word is and I don’t want her to be vulnerable.
Answer
Hi there,
Thanks for reaching out to Ask Robyn with your question. You’re wondering how to address modesty with your daughter, is that right? It’s a question that many parents have asked over the years.
Have you had any conversations with your daughter about this topic before? We understand it can be an awkward subject to bring up. Perhaps you could have a conversation about looking after our bodies and setting personal boundaries to feel safe and comfortable.
You might find it helpful to explore some of our articles in the Parenting Hub here, which provide tips on speaking to young people about their changing bodies and promoting a positive body image.
If you wish to discuss this further, the ISPCC’s Support Line service can be contacted by email at [email protected]
Take care,
Robyn
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