Your Question
Hello, my son’s preschool teacher told me I should have him assessed before he starts school in September. I haven’t a clue where to start, let alone if I think he needs an assessment.
Answer
Welcome to Ask Robyn
Thank you for getting in touch with our Ask Robyn service. Hearing that your child may need an assessment can feel confusing and worrying, especially when you are not sure what it means or where to begin. Many parents share this experience when a concern is first raised by a preschool or childcare provider. It is completely understandable to feel unsure about what the next step should be.
Understanding why a teacher might suggest an assessment
Preschool teachers spend a lot of time observing children as they learn, play, and interact with others. Because of this, they may notice areas where a child could benefit from extra support before starting primary school. An assessment does not mean that something is definitely wrong. Instead, it can help identify a child’s strengths and any areas where they may need additional help with learning, communication, behaviour, or development.
Therefore, when a teacher suggests an assessment, it is usually intended as a supportive step to ensure a child has the best possible start when they begin school.
Taking time to explore your options
At the same time, it is important that you feel comfortable and informed before deciding what to do next. You know your child best, and gathering more information can help you decide whether an assessment feels like the right step for your family.
You might consider the following steps.
- Speak again with the preschool teacher and ask them to explain in more detail what they have noticed and why they believe an assessment could be helpful.
- Observe your child at home and think about their communication, play, and interactions with others, as this can sometimes provide useful insight into their development.
- Talk with your GP or public health nurse, who can discuss your concerns and guide you on possible assessment services if needed.
- Remember that an assessment can sometimes open the door to supports that help children feel more confident and settled when they start school.
Moving forward at your own pace
Every child develops at their own pace, and it can take time to decide what feels right for your family. However, gathering information and speaking with professionals can often make the situation feel clearer and less overwhelming. Taking small steps now may help ensure that your child has the support they need as they move into this new stage of learning.
If you would like to talk some more about this our Support Line is open Monday Friday 9:00am to 1:00pm on 01 522 4300. Our you can email [email protected].
We hope you find the above helpful. Take care,
Robyn
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