Hello and welcome

Hi there,

Thank you very much for your enquiry. It sounds like you are carrying a lot at the moment, and money worries can feel especially heavy when schools are looking for contributions and Christmas is approaching. Many parents are in the same situation, and it is understandable to feel the pressure building.

School related costs

You have already been doing what you can by trying to put money aside, and that shows real effort. Sometimes the issue is not lack of willpower; it is simply that the costs do not match the income, especially with the rising cost of living. It might help to speak with the school and let them know you are finding the voluntary contributions difficult right now. These contributions are optional, and families are not expected to stretch beyond their means.

Financial supports and advice

There may also be supports available locally, depending on where you live. Services such as MABS provide free and confidential advice on budgeting and managing bills. Some community groups and charities also offer support around Christmas for families who are under pressure.

Emotional support

If you would like someone to talk things through with, you are very welcome to contact Childline. We are here to listen, to support, and to help you explore your options in your own time.

How to contact us

You can reach our Support Line on 01 522 4300 between 9am and 1pm, Monday to Friday.

A final note of encouragement

We hope you can be a bit kinder to yourself as you navigate all of this. You are doing your best in a very tough moment, and you deserve support rather than pressure. Whenever you need a space to talk, we are here for you.

Take care of yourself,

Robyn