Non-violent Resistance Programme

This programme is for parents and caregivers who feel they’ve run out of options. If you’re facing aggression, intimidation, or violence from your child, this course is for you. It’s open to mothers, fathers, foster carers, grandparents — anyone in a caregiving role. The programme is focused on giving you the skills and support you need, so you don’t have to face these challenges alone.

NVR is designed for situations where children or teenagers are showing prolonged aggressive behaviour. That could look like shouting, swearing, or verbal abuse. It could be hitting, kicking, spitting, or breaking things in the home. It might be threats — either in person or in writing. If you’re seeing these kinds of behaviours again and again, the NVR Programme offers a structured, supportive way to respond differently and begin to bring calm and safety back to your family.

The NVR Programme runs over nine core sessions, with additional support built in. Each session focuses on a different area — from de-escalation skills, to building support networks, to reconnecting with your child. The course is delivered online, so you can join from anywhere. Alongside group sessions, there are one-to-one check-ins, so you always feel supported. It’s a guided journey, with practical tools you can use straight away in your daily life.

That’s a question a lot of parents ask. The answer is: you only share what you’re comfortable with. Many parents find it helpful to talk openly once they see others facing the same struggles. But there’s no pressure. This is a safe, confidential space. You can choose how much or how little you share — and you’ll always be treated with respect.

There are no instant fixes — but this programme works. What you’ll learn are practical, non-violent strategies that reduce conflict, restore safety, and rebuild relationships over time. Parents often report feeling more confident, less isolated, and more in control. Every family is different, but change begins with new approaches — and NVR gives you those tools.

The NVR Programme is for parents and caregivers, not for children to attend. Change starts with you. We teach you strategies that you can use whether or not your child is willing to engage. By pressing pause, de-escalating conflict, and rebuilding your own authority, you create the conditions for calmer, safer relationships at home.

To say hello and see how you are feeling about the course etc. we also recap on group work, answer questions/queries, offer individualised support outside group setting including sign posting to other community services.

The programme is free to parents and caregivers. It’s delivered by ISPCC as part of our work to support families and create safer homes. There are no hidden charges — just a commitment of your time and energy to take part in the sessions and practise what you learn.

Signing up is simple. Fill in the form above and we’ll guide you through the next steps, answer any questions, and help you get started. The first step is reaching out — from there, you’ll be supported all the way.

Currently we run the programme online, which helps us engage with more parents from all over Ireland and we also do one-to-one check calls throughout the course, so parents feel supported throughout. If a parent is seeking in-person delivery they can contact our Support Line for advice.