In an abusive relationship

Hello there, welcome to Ask Robyn.

 

Thank you so much for reaching out. It takes incredible courage to share what you’re going through, and we want you to know that you’re not alone. The fear and terror you’re experiencing right now are completely valid, and it’s crucial to acknowledge that no one should ever make you feel this way. Yours and your child/ren’s safety and well-being are of utmost importance.

 

Living in an abusive relationship can be isolating, especially when you’re feeling alone. It’s natural to be scared and unsure of what to do next. Please know that there are people who care and want to help. You say you can’t tell anyone, but if there is someone you trust—a friend, family member, or uni counsellor—that you could confide in?, it can be a crucial first step toward getting the support you need.

 

We don’t know the age of your child or children, but every child has the right to grow up in a safe home, free from violence. Your children’s well-being, as well as your own, is paramount. Túsla, The Child and Family Agency in Ireland, has social workers who are there to ensure that all children are living in safe environments. They can offer support and guidance during this difficult time.

 

For more support regarding domestic violence, Women’s Aid (www.womensaid.ie) provides a range of services and can help you explore your options in a confidential and supportive environment. They understand what you’re going through and can guide you toward making the best decisions for yourself and your child/ren.

 

If you would like to talk more about this, our Support Line is open Monday-Friday, 9:00 am – 1:00 pm, at 01 5224300. You can also email us at [email protected]. We’re here for you, and we want to help you find a way through this. Please don’t hesitate to reach out.

 

Robyn