Why a ban will not protect us from the dangers of social media

Why a ban will not protect our children from the dangers of social media

Many of us working in child safeguarding and championing children’s rights find ourselves dismayed by the persistence of such quick-fix, headline-grabbing proposals.

While superficially attractive, a blanket ban in of itself will not have the desired effect. Young social media users will undoubtably find a work around of the ban, much like they have in regions where it has already been attempted. This risks leaving children and young people vulnerable in an unregulated online world. 

Here’s five reasons why we believe a blanket ban is not the best approach;

1. Children have rights in the digital world

Social media can provide opportunities to connect, communicate, learn and access support. Children have rights to information, education, participation and play online as well as offline.

2. It puts responsibility in the wrong place

A ban risks shifting responsibility onto children and families rather than the companies designing and profiting from these platforms. Technology companies must be responsible for creating safer digital environments.

3. Social media can be an important source of support

For some children, particularly those experiencing isolation or difficulty accessing support elsewhere, online spaces can provide valuable connection, information and communities.

4. A ban doesn't remove online risks

Children participate in digital environments beyond social media. Restricting access to platforms does not remove risks such as harmful content, grooming or exploitation – nor does it prepare children to navigate these risks as adults.

5. It could push children towards less safe spaces

Children may find ways around restrictions or move towards less known, less regulated platforms where protections may be weaker, potentially displacing rather than eliminating harm.

ISPCC’s solution

ISPCC has over twenty years experience in protecting children as they navigate the digital world. This has given us a unique perspective and deep insight on the challenges faced by children and young people as they increasingly live their lives online. That is why we demand social media platforms make meaningful changes to create safer digital environment for young people, through the following;

  1. Safety by design – children’s safety and wellbeing built into platforms from the outset.
  2. Robust age assurance – effective, privacy-preserving measures that provide age-appropriate experiences.
  3. Platform accountability – technology companies held responsible for the risks their products create or amplify.
  4. Safer algorithms and content – addressing addictive and manipulative design and children’s exposure to harmful content.
  5. Digital empowerment – giving children the skills to recognise risks, understand how platforms influence them and navigate the online world safely.

How ISPCC has always been working for children's digital rights and protections

Many of us working in child safeguarding and championing children’s rights find ourselves dismayed by the persistence of such quick-fix, headline-grabbing proposals 

Ten years ago, at a conference it co-hosted with Vodafone in Dublin Castle, the ISPCC warned that bullying, abuse, pornography, sextortion, public humiliation and grooming were some of the worrying issues that children and young people were encountering online.  

The conference was held after the Law Reform Commission had published proposals calling for the reform of the criminal law and the establishment of a national statutory oversight system, to promote and support digital safety. 

Then, ISPCC called upon the Government of the time to adopt the proposals suggested by the Law Reform Commission, saying that there was an urgent need to protect children when they are online.  

We have a regulator and an online safety framework in place now, still bedding in, however, and somewhat curtailed by judicial reviews and other legal challenges. But, a decade later, little else has changed, except that more and more children and young people are spending increasing amounts of time online from an earlier age with little meaningful effort made by technology companies to ensure their digital safety while they do so.  

While it is now widely accepted that a whole of society approach is necessary to provide true protection for children, the idea of ‘shared responsibility’ has gained traction with many commentators and public representatives who extol the benefits of a social media ban for under 16s.  

These measures, while superficially appealing, shift responsibility onto parents and children disproportionately, rather than addressing the role of the technology companies whose deliberate and intentional designs underpin much of the harm, for profit Parents are not a homogenous group and not all children have parents and caregivers who are competent and motivated to be involved in their children’s lives, offline nor online, thus compounding their vulnerability with such a proposition.  

The report of the EU Kids Online 2026 comparative study calls for safer, more private and empowering digital environments for children, pointing out the need to ensure that children can benefit from digital technologies while being effectively protected from harm. 

The EU Kids Online study draws on a representative survey of 28,465 children aged 10–16 in 19 European countries, conducted between April 2025 and April 2026 by the EU Kids Online research network and it includes approximately 2,000 children from Ireland 

Across the 19 countries, 48% of children say they feel safe online, compared with 65% who reported always or often feeling safe online in 2020. 

Professor Sonia Livingstone of the London School of Economics and Political Science, a co-author of the report, said: “The 2025 EU Kids Online survey finds a sharp rise in the proportion of children who have been upset online in the past month – from 7% in 2020 to 23%. Since European children gain important social and informational benefits from going online, it is vital that we improve their safety online more effectively.” 

The ISPCC fully agrees, particularly as this is what Irish children want too.  

According to a report from Coimisiún na Meán entitled ‘Online Safety & Children’s Digital Lives’ which focuses on Irish data from the EU Kids Online survey: 

  • 69% of children surveyed agreed it would be better to teach children about staying safe online rather than a social media ban 
  • Most children surveyed (67%) did not think that a social media ban would be effective as children would find a way to get around it 

Separately, a total of 144 organisations, including the ISPCC, and experts working across child rights, digital rights and mental health have written to European Commission President Ursula von der Leyen ahead of her State of the European Union address on September 16, calling for a harmonised European framework to make technology safe for children by design and default. 

The signatories are urging President von der Leyen to pursue a transformative approach that addresses the safety of technology itself, rather than relying primarily on denying children access to digital services wholesale. 

Earlier this year, more than 140 children’s rights organisations across Europe, including the ISPCC, co-signed an evidence-based letter to the European Commission making clear that it is neither fair nor effective to require children to bear the cost of rectifying problems that are fundamentally embedded in the design and business models of online services. 

A blanket ban risks entrenching harm by diverting attention away from where meaningful accountability should lie. Instead, we should be insisting on a strict “safety by design” standard, supported by privacy-preserving and robust age assurance mechanisms. This approach places responsibility on technology companies to create safer environments from the outset. 

Efforts to improve online safety must not come at the expense of children’s rights — including their rights to information, education, participation and play. A crude age-based prohibition would not only fail to eliminate harm but would likely displace it, pushing young people towards less regulated or entirely unregulated spaces where risks may be even greater. 

Furthermore, such bans risk diminishing the urgency to address the systemic issues that drive harm online. These include behavioural profiling, addictive and manipulative design features, recommender systems that amplify harmful content and commercial practices that exploit children’s data and vulnerabilities.  

Many of the risks children face online stem from the design of the product and service. Features that prioritise engagement over wellbeing can expose young users to manipulation, exploitation and grooming — often in ways that are difficult to detect. Children who do not recognise such harms are unlikely to report them. 

It is essential that young people learn to question what they see online, to understand how algorithms shape their experience and to trust their instincts when something feels wrong. However, as the sophistication of these technologies develop and now with AI embedded into them, this is becoming a mammoth challenge to support. The impact of harmful online content inevitably spills into children’s offline lives, affecting their wellbeing. 

At the ISPCC, our priority is to empower young people with the resilience and coping skills they need to thrive in an increasingly complex digital world.  

Our Childline Listening Service operates 24 hours a day, every day of the year, ensuring that any young person who needs to talk will always find someone ready to listen. 

We are also a proud partner in the EU-funded Irish Safer Internet Centre project alongside Irish Internet Hotline, National Parents Council and Webwise, under the coordination of the Department of Justice, Home Affairs and Migration.  

We will now await publication of the text of the proposed EU Kids Act to better understand how the Commission proposes to proceed with this social media ban. 

World Suicide Prevention Day: When a child feels there is no way out, we need to be there

World Suicide Prevention Day: When a child feels there is no way out, we need to be there

This World Suicide Prevention Day, Childline by ISPCC is shining a light on what children and young people are telling us about suicide, and why having somewhere safe to talk can matter so much.

Every day, children and young people across Ireland contact Childline about some of the most difficult experiences in their lives.

So far in 2026, Childline has received 877 contacts about suicide – more than three every day.

Behind every one of those contacts is a young person with their own story, worries and reasons for reaching out.

For some, the conversation may be about suicide generally, or concern for a friend or family member. But in 83% of contacts about suicide, the young person is experiencing suicidal thoughts themselves.

Around 70% of all suicide-related contacts are considered high or very high risk.

 

What are children telling us?

There is rarely one simple reason why a young person may experience suicidal thoughts.

Through conversations with Childline and insights from our nLight research project, we see children speaking about feeling unsupported, disbelieved or trapped.

Abuse or neglect at home can be a factor. Bullying, social isolation and difficulties in relationships also feature in conversations.

Young people express feelings such as:

“Nobody cares.”

“Nobody loves me.”

“People would be happier without me.”

We also hear from children who are worried that a friend may attempt suicide, while some young people have told Childline about being encouraged by others online to harm or kill themselves.

These conversations are a powerful reminder of the importance of taking children seriously when they tell us they are struggling.

 

Young people don’t always use the word ‘suicide’

Understanding the language children use online is also increasingly important.

Through ISPCC’s involvement in the nLight research project, we see examples of children using terms such as “unalive” when discussing suicide online.

Young people’s language constantly evolves, particularly in digital spaces. They may use alternative words to talk about difficult subjects, including language that can avoid automated moderation or red-flagging on digital platforms.

For parents, carers, professionals and those designing online services for children, listening to how young people communicate distress can be just as important as listening for particular words.

 

Sometimes a child simply needs someone to listen

The average Childline engagement with a young person contacting us about suicide lasts 45 minutes.

That is 45 minutes in which a young person has someone focused on them, listening without judgement and giving them the space to express what they are thinking and feeling.

The majority of those contacting us about suicide are low or first-time users of Childline. For some, reaching out may be one of the first times they have spoken about what they are experiencing.

Our role is to listen, support and empower children and young people, and to help them identify the support available to them.

Childline is available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, because we never know when a child might decide that they are ready to talk.

 

Help us be there when a child reaches out

No child should have to face their darkest moments alone.

Your support helps ISPCC ensure Childline can continue to be there whenever a child or young person needs someone to listen – whether that’s in the middle of the afternoon or late at night.

By donating to ISPCC, you can help us continue to listen, support and empower children and young people across Ireland.

Donate today at ISPCC.ie.

 

If you need support

If you are a child or young person and something is worrying you, you can talk to Childline about anything that’s on your mind.

Call Childline free on 1800 66 66 66 or use Live Chat at Childline.ie.

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 112 or 999.

Summer Break, Silent Struggles: Childline reports a rise in suicide contacts

Boys earring wetsuits walking from the beach on a sunny day in autumn. They are on a staycation with their family to lower their carbon footprint and support the local economy.

Summer Break, Silent Struggles: Childline reports a rise in suicide contacts

What will be the most heartbreaking day of the summer? Last year, it was July 20 – the day that Childline received the most contacts from children and young people who were experiencing abuse, neglect and isolation during what is supposed to be the best days of their lives. 

Unfortunately, the summer of 2026 is already shaping up to be a difficult one for many children and young people. The Childline team already has experienced a noticeable spike in contacts related to suicide last week.

The longer days and the break from the routine of school life means that children face an increased risk of isolation, exposure to danger online, abuse and neglect. 

Many of these children dread the summer and count the days to go back to school. There, they can be themselves without fearing the consequences and teachers are available to give them the support that they need.

Take Eabha* who experiences food poverty, social isolation and abuse from her mother who drinks to numb her own pain and takes out her frustrations on her daughter. Eabha will spend the long, lonely summer holidays looking after her young siblings, lying to her friends to explain why she can’t meet them and doing everything she possibly can to ensure that her mother doesn’t lose her temper.

Sam* told a Childline volunteer about how his emotionally abusive family make him feel unloved and unable to express himself for fear of being taunted and bullied. He says that he hates being at home.

For Lily*, a carer for her critically ill parent, school offers a break from the constant pressure she experiences at home. She doesn’t want her friends to pity her so she shares little about what her life is really like.  

Elizabeth Donlon Fox, National Childline Listening Coordinator, says that our dedicated team of staff and volunteers hear similar stories on a daily basis: “When we think of summer, we think of endless, carefree days, but for so many children and young people, it’s a time of isolation, fear and neglect. It is truly shocking what so many young people have to endure and the lasting consequence of this trauma on their lives.”

For so many children, summer is a time of heartbreak, not happiness, but Childline is here to support them 24/7. To support Childline in this crucial work, please donate now.

ISPCC offers support to children and young people at childline.ie and at 1 800 66 66 66. 

  • *Names have been changed